The Fine Art Of Forgiveness And Letting Go

There are quiet moments that we have at times eh. Things settle down and in these quiet moments sometimes that which we have not known or understood well or that which seems to be one way absolutely and not the other settles into a different pattern where forgiveness and allowance live.

In this position where forgiveness and allowance live it's often easy - or at least easier eh - to let go, let be and allow.

This does not mean that we discard our discernment or we do not offer constructive criticism when we are asked not when we are not asked. It does however mean that in those moments of stillness we can forgive ourselves for making repeated errors, as we may feel, or for stimulating wrath in others - we may feel.

But then we also have to consider perhaps there is other reasons for these things. Perhaps we didn't really stimulate that wrath. Perhaps we were just the last straw.

I'm going to give you some homework. Its been a while since I've posted to Benevolent Magic but I'm going to give you a little homework now. That homework is to reach for those quiet moments.

If they do not present themselves then make sure you have one every day. Not just in the bathroom, not just in the bath but something you have scheduled. For most of you the most easy time will be before bed or just before sleep.

In that quiet moment ask yourself, "Do I need to let go, do I need to allow, do I need to forgive?" If so start like this. First do the letting go exercise if you can as you can see here or read there and if that is not it then I recommend you say this - first asking for all the most benevolent energies that are available for you to be all around and about you. Then say, "I am asking that I have the capability to forgive myself for being fearful and to forgive myself for being angry based on that fear and to forgive all beings including myself for actions that were regretted. I am also asking that others be able to forgive themselves for these same things and that the result be the most benevolent outcome for all beings."

Then focus on forgiveness. Imagine it if necessary. If you cannot imagine it then play out a scene in your head where you forgive somebody or where they forgave you and you felt better.

In these times where there is so much confusion and so much challenge it is important to remember that love is not only what holds us all together but what binds us into one unit.

It will be alright. Do the best you can as you get through these times and we will meet again surely, if not immediately then in worlds to come. Goodlife.

More About Forgiveness Now As Well As Disentanglement

Let us consider the circumstances around forgiveness. You have all read many things over the years about forgiveness and why it is worth doing even if only to relieve yourself of the burden of resentment.

Let us consider one of the main situations that holds back forgiveness from being complete. Very often one finds oneself in the circumstance where forgiveness, no matter how difficult to provide to others who have offended you or otherwise harmed you, can be worth doing simply because the constant gnawing at you about your anger at others can be overwhelming and add greatly to your stress level - but you know this.

What's holding it back from being complete? The biggest challenge is in forgiving yourself. Consider when you say to somebody - though it may not come up very often for some of you but consider when you say, "I forgive you" then also in a quiet moment later on - laying down or sitting up on your own - go into the most relaxed feeling you can obtain.

Calm yourself completely and when you can get to that place where you are calm and comfortable then say out loud, "I forgive you." You don't have to be specific about a person but if someone's picture flashes to your mind or some circumstance about which you feel discomfort simply say, "I forgive you."

If the discomfort doesn't fade then say, "I forgive myself for allowing myself to be hurt in life."

See if that helps. If that discomfort fades then remain in your relaxed state until other things come up that disturb you even if it is a place or a thing that makes you uncomfortable.

Speak out loud to that place or thing even if it's an inanimate object as you might perceive it, "I forgive you." If your discomfort doesn't go away then forgive yourself in the way stated above.

Now for some of you it won't work because it's a deeper root then that - meaning that there is so much about forgiveness, so much pain from the past or even present that there needs to be something that goes beyond being able to do that.

In this case I'm going to recommend disentanglement - the steps of which I've given here.

It involves gold light beings and light beings, angels and guides and certainly - Creator in order to support you as an individual and you are worth supporting.

I'm going to recommend that after you do the forgiveness process wait for about ten or twenty minutes. If you fall asleep that's fine, when you wake up try disentanglement.

Remember to request that all your beloved deities - whoever they may be, your angels, your guides, your spirit teachers and all benevolent loving beings of spirit and other energy be with you before you begin.

You will probably - when you wake up or when you get up - you will feel a little lighter. By lighter I mean you will feel as if something has been lifted off of you.

What disentanglement does and why you request these light beings is that these beings are able to travel into all places in your present and all places in your past and release the cords that bind you to old wounds - whether they be ones you remember or most likely have forgotten - and people, places and things mostly in your past but sometimes in your present that are causing you - remembering it and not remembering it you see - causing you harm and discomfort.

It's about releasing yourself from the burden of old discomforts. You see - it is difficult isn't it - to remember all who have trespassed against you to say nothing of those to whom you have trespassed but this process allows you to not only move through the first level of disentanglement but to release so much and have so much released from you.

Now "gold light beings" is important to say because they are able to function throughout all places, times and existence in a way that is completely benevolent and the same with light beings. I might add that angels, when they've been seen by others, are often seen as gold and white light - so this gives you an idea of who they are.

I recommend you use the words exactly as stated. In time I will give you more about disentanglement. For those of you who have not yet started this I feel it will be of great value. For those of you who have started it, then focus on the forgiveness work.

Goodlife to you all and goodnight.

Mother Earth

Thank you all for coming and reading and acting on this site. It is my intention these days as our country and the world goes through changes to help and support us all through these changes in the most benevolent way that we can acquire and why do I say acquire?
It is because I believe and have been taught that we are here on our beloved Earth to learn how to do as Earth does.
When Earth has a problem or a discomfort she moves herself around a little bit not unlike we would do if we were uncomfortable in a chair or uncomfortable in a bed or even uncomfortable standing. We move a little bit until we feel a bit more comfortable.
This, of course, she does with her earthquakes and occasionally landslides and, of course, if we are in the way of such things it inconveniences us at least and sometimes injures us. I feel strongly that this is not her intent but rather an unexpected or an unhappy side effect from her point of view and yet since we are on her body, must we not expect that.
Many of you have beloved pets - dogs, cats and so on. Is it not the case when you suddenly get up, perhaps during a nap the phone rings and you wake up and jump up without thinking, for the phone or even just reach over for the phone and the dog or cat that's been asleep on your lap is suddenly disturbed, perhaps falls off or is otherwise shaken up but they do not hold a grudge for long eh?
They are recognizing that something was important and you suddenly moved but shortly thereafter they're right back.
Let's be just as forgiving. When Mother Earth does something for herself even though it might seem like an attack directly on us at times, such as in this last powerful hurricane in the gulf states of the US, that there may be something that is being done for her by her for her body.
I've been taught that Mother Earth uses her wind, just her regular wind, to distribute energies all over the Earth - to distribute good energies and when there are energies that are of tension or discomfort or of misery or unhappiness to dilute those unhappy concentrations of energy by moving them around the Earth so that they are not concentrated in one spot thus either perpetuating the harm or causing more by there simply being an uncomfortable feeling that can prompt people to do things that they might not otherwise do.
For us, we have a comparison as well in our bodies. Sometimes if we're tired we breathe hard and other times when we need to move air around inside our body we suddenly release some, eh, from one place or another, yes?
For us it seems insignificant, yes, but if we were as big as Mother Earth, as complex a Being as her - able to support Beings on her body even though she functions as a living Being, perhaps we would do things in a bigger way as well.
I know many of you have thought about these things but I feel it's important to take time today and address them a bit.
Benevolent Magic's intent is to help you to work with Mother Earth rather than to struggle as best you can unknowingly and seemingly unable to cope with what is around you either created by your fellow citizens consciously or otherwise or simply struggling with understanding Mother Earth's needs and requirements for herself.
Mother Earth has indicated to me for the past year or two that she needs to make some changes in the way Human Beings live on the Earth and one of these changes she desires for you to make is - she would prefer all over the Earth if people would move inland from the beach.
The animals who live in the sea and who live near the seashore not only need some place to live but they work in concert with her to be able to support her good health because they are in harmony with Mother Earth, something we are learning to do but have not accomplished yet.
She would prefer that Human Beings live no closer than five miles away from the beach.
I'm not trying to say people are bad for living on the beach or near it. What I am saying is that in our world where people sometimes need very much beauty and sustenance there's a desire to get close to that beauty and sometimes it's too close.
Oh, it's one thing to go to the beach for a day,an outing yes, and to lay down your blanket and to have some snacks and to enjoy the Sun with family or with loved ones or with friends or even by yourself but to drill down into her body and put a permanent structure there, she's not comfortable with that and she'd actually prefer for the next five to six years at least if you minimize your visits to the beach.
Now she does not feel this way at this time for inland lakes and rivers and other places where there is a semblance of beach - not the same as at the ocean of course but she does not mind that at all at this time, so I've been guided.
I'm not trying to interfere with your freedom. I'm simply passing on information that she has told me in various ways - feeling, inspiration, yes channeling and other ways that many of you who are very sensitive have felt yourself at times.
In the next few weeks and months I may reveal other things that she has told me to give you some glimmer of future articles in the Sedona Journal of Emergence where you often find my channelings and also that the acquaintenship we have needs to be amplified just a little bit so you can utilize these Living Prayers and Benevolent Magic in the way that works best for you and others.
All of this works, that you read here, because there is agreement at the soul level that if something is benevolent, even for one person, and is completely comfortable for all other souls then it works.
Sometimes things don't work if souls have another agenda - perhaps there is a reason even if we do not consciously know it.
It is my intention, to the best of my ability, to speak about these matters from time to time here as well as to provide Benevolent Magic words and Living Prayer words that we can say to improve the quality of our lives.
Let me close with a Benevolent Magic today. I recommend that you say now for yourself - one says Benevolent Magic for ones self even though it may very well be benevolent for others. One says Living Prayer for your community, your friends, your family, for people on the other side of the world, the world community but it also includes yourself since all souls must agree.
Let me give you a Benevolent Magic you can say for yourself now and perhaps it will be benevolent for others as well. You could say: "I request that my heart and soul be strong, cheerful, amiable, able to freely express that cheerfulness, amiability and strength for myself and others in the most benevolent way for me, resulting in the most benevolent outcome."
Goodlife to you all.